How do I tell the builder whether I want to quote or not?

Head to the Invitations & Requests tab and find the invitation or request you wish to respond to. You will find this under the response drop-down on the far right, select either Quoting or Not Quoting this will let the builder know of your intentions.

You have a live ‘Response Score’ where the builder can see how active and responsive you are within EstimateOne. It is just as important to let the builder know if you plan on ‘Not Quoting’ as it is ‘Quoting’ as this contributes to your score.